Everyday Horror
Written by chickaywrites
So, Halloween’s knocking again and I should be preparing my kids’ costumes for the activities lined up – but we’re not attending any this year. Our son simply outgrew it. While there is no issue with our ever-sociable 3-year old, I have to say I just feel lazy to think about a unique costume for any of them. The RTWs in the malls are tempting, BUT those wouldn’t cut it – my munchkins shouldn’t be anything like the other kids. It’s a mommy-G-must.
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In a previous post, I marked the annual appearance of The EPH Lady. Yep, I think she’s around again (saw her floating on my screen a few days ago). She’s her usual Rapunzel self minus the fairy tale aura, displaying a hunched posture, and maybe randomly popping when you refresh a page or simply load the EPH homepage (I am not sure if there is a horrific sound that accompanies her because my computer is forever in mute mode.) She’s an EPH icon.
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I absolutely appreciate the mute button option but it does not work on the noise my kids make whenever they wage war against each other. The eardrum-breaking shriek and wails of our youngest versus the nonstop blabber and taunts c/o the older boy are enough to cause a splitting headache. Sometimes, all you can do is totally shut the scene in your mind and just wander (hoping against hope that they will stop before any one of them gets hurt).
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Household helpers also contribute to everyday horror. I remember this one helper we hired. She’s one loud person. She couldn’t express herself without hitting the high pitches and volume. When I call on her, she would scream her confirmation. She also would often shout our names that neighbors would always know if we were around or we’ve arrived. One thing I would always remember about this woman is that night when I went down from our room upstairs to go to the restroom. She was then newly hired so I really wasn’t used to her oddities yet. It was around 5AM (weekend, so no classes). It was dark and just when I was about to complete the flight of stairs, she popped from nowhere with her really, really huge, kinky-curly hair down and a big grin displaying lack of front teeth. I screamed and nearly fell. I scolded her – for the life of her, she didn’t know what she did wrong. After almost a year, she ran away with her textmate, leaving her hubby and 5 kids in the province clueless.
My current helper is very efficient. She reads the Bible during her break. She is not the outdoor type so she rarely goes out during Sundays. She can follow instructions to the dot. She is not the smiling or cheery type, but I have learned to adapt. She is not in a relationship with her cellphone too, so that is a big plus. She’s almost perfect. Yes. Almost. After only six months, she threatens to leave if we won’t give her a Christmas bonus. (Kill me now, please).
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The Meralco bill is a regular dose of horror for us. We often would take a deep breath first before we open the document. No matter how much we try to preserve the status quo (which we have learned to accept only after several months of paying twice our regular consumption), it seems as if the amount wouldn’t budge and go back to what it used to be. We never added an appliance and we have the same lifestyle – but the bill soared like h*ll.
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There’s more where these came from but I will throw the ball to you now. I am sure you have your own list. Share with us some horror stories that are not necessarily Halloween-related. Just type away below.
as usual, wow!
of all the horrors you mentioned, having “special” househelp is something I’ve been through. We’ve had one that would not dare drink buco juice because she believes it is the equivalent of drinking vinegar. Another was never entrusted to rinse/prepare ice because she washes it with soap. o.O
as for the dreaded Meralco bill, I did notice that the charges went down this month… our consumption went up by almost 20kWh but the charges dropped by P300. I’m not complaining.
really great post mommy chic!
sibling rivalry is always a never-ending horror i face at home. its funny how my boys, even after a horrific fight, always manage to be best friends after a day of fighting and teasing, booboos, tears and all…
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@ cpreyes – haha! why would she wash the ice with soap!!???
our meralco bill also went down a bit – but it’s still insanely high. *sigh*
@ dondi – i allow them to display their rage whenever i am in the mood to tolerate them. it’s amusing how they just suddenly shift to laughter and giggling after a really intense fight (you just need to survive the long playing crying of the younger one first).
thanks for reading, girls!
happy halloween.
I have no idea… she just said she want to make sure it’s clean. LOL
I don’t think we’d all run out of complaints with Meralco
think of it this way, the savings can be used for something else… like Starbucks! hehe…
Looking forward to more posts in the future. I finally got my priorities and technical difficulties straightened-out.
– When our former homehelp told me “Ate, may nangangain pala sa dulo ng rainbow?!”
– When I told our current help that the correct pronunciation of the letter “H” is “eich” and not “etch”, and she retorted:” Huwaaaat ate?! PINALITAN NA NILA?!”
Although I have to admit that the soaping of the ice is tough to beat. haha
–The electric bill is horrifying on my end too. So much about being in the country is cheap.
@chicakywrites: well, if you have no complaints about your current househelp, and you did say she’s almost perfect, don’t you think she deserves that bonus? what i wouldn’t give for a decent househelper.
@cpreyes: i can’t for the life of me, drink coffee that costs more than some people’s whole day’s meal.
@biela: wahaha. katawa maid nyo.
Mommy Chikay’s blog posts are always entertaining.
i can identify with your “horror” stories, mommy chickay, esp. the Meralco bill, and the househelp issues. The former i’ve miraculously kept constant by using the aircon only 2hrs. each night (if my teenage son wants to use it longer, he’s have to contribute to the payment. the ploy has worked. now he sticks to the 2-hour aircon use rule. As for the househelp, i’ve long ago sent the maid packing… so while doing the house chores may be backbreaking during weekends, there’s no more stress arising from unreasonable demands & quirks
My other “horror” stories: – medical emergency bills; officemates who act like primadonnas or stockholders, and so on and so forth (all just part of a day’s work)
Jao – sorry if my “coffee comment” somehow offended you. It was intended to be a joke. Anyway, if you have saved a couple of hundred pesos from your bill (and could live without it), why not give it to charity? Christmas is coming up pretty soon and there are many kababayans who would appreciate the gesture. just a thought.
Biela- winner ang “H” lesson!
Judy- medical bills are the worst horrors ever! lalo na pag walang HMO…not to mention the stress of worrying…oh, and I too no longer have househelp (for roughly the same reasons…at least until I find a good one.)
my everyday horror is being late for my EPH deadline. no joke. hahaha. I went to school in Japan for a year and I was constantly dreading waking up late and missing my transpo. domino effect kasi: late for the bus -> miss scheduled train in the station -> late for school XD the fear of being late was greatly instilled in me. XD
@cpreyes, am not offended in any way. just commenting. and i’m the one who needs charity lol. we’ still have 2 months unpaid electricity bill.
we do however give our son’s old toys to charity yearly.
@ Biela – your “eich” story made my day! Hahaha tnx!
@ Judy – I totally agree with the medical emergency. It’s stressful with capital “S’s”. As for aircon use, we bought this a/c that automatically stops when the room is already cool and just turns on again when temp increases. The hubby is from
baguio so a cold room is a must for as long as he’s home, but when the bill flew to the roof, he started to adjust haha!
@ Jao – We increased her salary after only 3 months because she’s ok. What I don’t appreciate is her “sharing” of her sentiments with another maid. She has this tone that irks me – as if she is indispensable. Attitude problem is a major item in my dislike list.